Wolf wrote:Titanium Dragon wrote:
It IS possible to be friends with someone who you don't agree with totally idealogically. IRL I have friends who are Christian, and who aren't pro-choice. They aren't GOOD friends, but they are friends.
Yes, it's possible to be friends with someone whose ideology does not exactly match your own. However, they cannot stray too far from your own moral compass, or it won't work. If one of these "friends" you mention asked you to sit with her (I'm assuming at least one is female, if not the example is still valid) in the operating theatre, holding her hand to support her while she has an abortion, would you?
As you said, they aren't good friends. What does that make them? Acquaintances - you just made my point for me.
Note: that "aren't" should have been an "are", seeing as I'm an atheist. I have good friends who are pagan. And christian. And agnostic. Apparently you have the right to define who I consider to be a friend. I have many layers of closeness to friends. There are acquaintances, there are friends of all flavors, then there are good friends, what many call "best" friends. I have several best friends who aren't atheist. In fact, most of my "best" friends are agnostic or christian.
Any female friend I have, I would absolutely sit there in the operating room with holding their hand. I am pro-choice after all, and its the decent thing to do even if you are not and someone close to you asks you to be there for them... or even if they don't, and don't have anyone else to.
Titanium Dragon wrote:
Again, depends on the paladin and the Chaotic Good person. The CG one may drive the paladin crazy, but some real friends of mine do that to me at times, but I'm still their friend. Other people may be the equivalent distance from me and I'd dislike them considerably.
A LG Paladin who is in an adventuring party with a CG Fighter (for example) will tolerate the CG Fighter for as long as their goals match. However, if the Fighter decides one day not to accept the surrender of an enemy party, how is the Paladin going to react? Will he a) continue on as if nothing happened or b) relieve the fighter of his weapons and turn him over to the local authorities?
A CG Fighter is, for all intents and purposes, a vigilante. A LG Paladin is, essentially, a Marshall. What kind of relationship are they going to have? Sure they may each respect the others abilities, but they are not friends, and they would not work together voluntarily.
Depends on the CG fighter. Again, you are overgeneralizing based on alignment.
CG and LE are not opposed alignments, so there's no reason such a union could not work (though there would be tension).
Those are very different alignments, as far apart as LG and CE, though, admittedly, CGers and LEers tend to be more open-minded than LGers. Also, people aren't wholly one thing. Someone could be LE, but feel sorry for orphans and give them money, food, candy ect. as they too were an orphan once. If you only saw that side of them, you might be horrified by their more sinister side... but if you never saw the other side, you might think they were the nicest person there is.
Jordicus wrote:that is a completely unnecessary comment. and besides.. I would say that the person who has less than 15 posts and thinks he knows everything about alignment is more of a troll than anyone else.
Jordicus, you know better than to say stuff like that. Number of posts doesn't matter. *sighs*
And Wolf... the rules only state for paladins who you can be friends with, and as someone else mentioned, the DM can change ANY rule.
All I ever said is that in order to have anything more than a work relationship with another character (ie: an adventuring party) the general alignments of the characters involved cannot be on extreme ends of the alignment spectrum.
Not true. It all depends on the people involved and their individual philosophies.
Also, IMO most people on Avlis are more neutral than anything else, despite their alignment sheets saying "good", so it really isn't that big of an issue anyway as most people tend towards the middle rather than towards the end. Most characters are neutral good or chaotic good, and a number are TN, and a lot of NG and CG characters tend more towards the middle, so...
In other news, I am apparently the 22nd most important person on these forums. Yay for me!
Now, go play Avlis instead of trying to compete with my post count everyone.
Gilkin> ouch. how often do you roll a 20?
Cath> once every 20 rolls?