I figured out a solution.. Make your character purposly have an XP penalty.. A few others mentioned this to me before about how they where wanting to level alot slower.. well.. they're right.. It's better that was because you can enjoy yourself.. say screw XP and plain have fun. Not to mention your character would have a longer life span. So.. I'm taking this into consideration and there is only one thing to do.. go from a lvl 4/ lvl 5 char to a lvl 9 / lvl 5 char.. thus giving me a nice penalty. Damn, I gotta give it to you old timers.. you're pretty smart.. I used to play PnP quite a bit when I was younger and Leveling was the last thing that was on anyones mind. Sure.. Everyone wanted a stronger character but when it came down to it and the way some of my friends DMed it was all plan and simply about fun. To be honest I wish I never played or even hurd of Diablo & Diablo2 because it really screwed me over with the true RPG world.
I do like killing stuff & exploring.. so I really am going to enjoy the XP penalty teehee

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