Neilos wrote:these are some very generic questions that i just dont know the answers to...
1. how do i rest? i press R but it wont let me. i am a cleric and cant figure out how to get my spells useable again...
What you are doing is correct, the only problem is that you cannot rest in all areas. Underneath your portrait there is a clump of buttons, the rest button (looks like a closed eye) will be shaded a different colour in areas you cannot rest in.
Neilos wrote:2. how do i send a tell to someone?

i kno this is a silly question but i cant figure it out
there are a couple of ways, click on thier portrait (if you are partied up with them or are talking to them) or click on thier name on the player list (press p to bring it up) then click the "send a tell to this player" button on the same screen.
Neilos wrote:3. for the cleric i thought i could change out any spell to replace t with a healing spell at any time...how do i do this?
From your spell book drag the healing spells onto one of your quickslots, its icon will be displayed with a "s" on it, this means you can cast it instead of your memorised spells.